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OT anyone increasing their intake of mono-unsaturated fatty acids?

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Hmmmm. Breast cancer rates are the highest in the USA in the county just north of me, Marin County. I forget if they have figured out why that is. First they attributed it to better health care and better screening for breast cancer. But then they changed the reason to something else. Forget what it was.

Aren’t you near "Silicone" valley? Maybe that’s the link. San Diego is supposed to have the healthiest population.  I’ve been there many times and it’s hard to stay inside and watch TV when you have blue skies and sunshine with low humidity just about every day.  Unfortunately, I was working inside gray Navy ships that stunk of jet fuel.  :-P Tony — The charter is available at:

Questioning HIV – some personal reflections

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‘AIDS’ is now a $300,000,000 dollar business. There is your answer. Most ’scientist’ are now employed by large corporations who are in business for one thing only ….PROFIT.

You appear to be claiming that there’s a giant conspiracy of doctors, scientists, lab technicians, and drug company employees and managers to falsify scientific evidence.  And, somehow, all those thousands of people manage to keep it a secret. I asked somebody a question.  I wanted *his* answer.  *You* followed up with an answer to a question I didn’t ask.  I think you must enjoy being chronically irrelevant. — David Canzi     All it takes to keep a controversy going is one chronically                 wrong idiot who won’t shut up.  A controversy is not evidence                 that there are actually two sides worth hearing.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Isn’t it time everyone faced up to the truth that the lies the gay establishment has maintained about these issues cannot be kept going forever? If you are gay, it isn’t because of your genes, you weren’t born that way, it’s because of a complicated set of family circumstances that you have not confronted. Balderdash. Well, if it IS the case, then perhaps we can treat the serious psychosocial disease of heterosexuality. The planet is overpopulated and, while famine, war and disease can help reduce the population, these are sloppy and inefficient means for doing so. (Oh…and a bit unethical to promote….) By contrast, curing heterosexuals of their perverse desire to breed by helping them discover their happier, gay nature is indeed a much better approach! Let us find and support the efforts to change heterosexuals a way from their debased and perverted lifestyle. And encourage the many bisexuals to give up their lusts for the opposite gender!

A quicker means would simply to purge all the Fundamentalists of every religion, thus the remaining people who on average only have 2 children ensure that the population shrinks to the point where we are replacing ourselves and not growing. It would be alot simplier, and if you use the heat from burning the bodies to make electricity, atleast the 5cents for the bullet will be paid off through conserving natural and valuable resources like coal and oil. Matt — http://home.iprimus.com.au/matgarnz "Atheism is a non-prophet organisation" "Mays Gilliam didn’t attend the ‘Rally to Fight Cancer’ last year.  Does this mean Mays Gilliam is for Cancer? A vote for Mays Gilliam is a vote for Cancer." – Head of State "Baldrick, you are as thick as some extra-clotted clotted cream that has been left out in the rain by some clot, so much that you couldn’t unclot it with an electric declotter." – Edmund Blackadder "I have a plan so cunning you could put a tail on it and call it a weasel!" – Edmund Blackadder

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Isn’t it time everyone faced up to the truth that the lies the gay establishment has maintained about these issues cannot be kept going forever? If you are gay, it isn’t because of your genes, you weren’t born that way, it’s because of a complicated set of family circumstances that you have not confronted. Balderdash.

Well, if it IS the case, then perhaps we can treat the serious psychosocial disease of heterosexuality. The planet is overpopulated and, while famine, war and disease can help reduce the population, these are sloppy and inefficient means for doing so. (Oh…and a bit unethical to promote….) By contrast, curing heterosexuals of their perverse desire to breed by helping them discover their happier, gay nature is indeed a much better approach! Let us find and support the efforts to change heterosexuals a way from their debased and perverted lifestyle. And encourage the many bisexuals to give up their lusts for the opposite gender!                 George M. Carter

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Isn’t it time everyone faced up to the truth that the lies the gay establishment has maintained about these issues cannot be kept going forever? If you are gay, it isn’t because of your genes, you weren’t born that way, it’s because of a complicated set of family circumstances that you have not confronted.

Balderdash. Similarly, you do not have AIDS because you contracted a deadly virus, perhaps through one unlucky encounter; you probably have AIDS because you are a promiscuous, drug-using slut, and your behaviour is wrecking your body.

No kidding.  *Damn* those promiscuous junkie babies with AIDS! Not to be too judgemental about it.

Well, *bless* your shriveled l’il ol’ heart! I’ve nothing against anyone being a slut per se, or against drug abuse per se, but let’s face reality.

Yes, let’s.  You can start by forgoing your lying.

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And if one couldn’t trust the gay establishment about homosexuality, why should one trust them about AIDS?, I thought.

What is remarkable about your posting is that you didn’t talk about the theory, choosing instead to talk about the theorists.  At length. So…  How did the evil gay establishment get the scientists — most of whom are straight — on their side? — David Canzi     She couldn’t get over the skimpiness of his worldly goods.                 "Maybe you ought to rethink crime as a career path," she said.                 "I do, all the time," he said, "but nothing else gives me the                 same job satisfaction." — Donald E. Westlake, Put A Lid On It

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‘AIDS’ is now a $300,000,000 dollar business. There is your answer. Most ’scientist’ are now employed by large corporations who are in business for one thing only ….PROFIT. This proves the point about AID$ For every mortality: – AIDS gets $2,400 Breast cancer $230 Heart disease $108 Diabetes $28 and these fanatics keep screaming..MORE, MORE, MORE!!

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Great post Sidney, "In both cases, there was vicious intimidatation and ridicule and attempts at censorship directed against those who dared to question the accepted, politically correct view." Censorship is the only way this stupid myth can be kept alive. If the public saw all the evidence not one person would be left believing in the myth of ‘AIDS’ in a month. Best wishes, Paul

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` Hi there, I’ve been interested in the controversies surrounding AIDS for years. I bought a whole lot of books on the issue but didn’t read any of them until very recently. For a long time I was too disturbed and upset by the whole issue to be able to do that. Anyway, having got over my inhibitions (with some difficulty – it was frankly amazing to me how hard it was to work through hundreds of pages of dissident argument about AIDS) and actually read some of those books, although I’m not absolutely convinced yet, I now suspect that the dissidents are more or less right. Partly that’s because of the political context; the HIV theory served the interests of the gay establishment, which I always disliked and distrusted. They had been arguing for years, on the basis of extremely slender evidence, that people are ‘born gay.’ As a fairly gay guy myself, and one whose life fits the Freudian theory of homosexuality perfectly, I knew that was rubbish. If the fact that I had a too-close, over-protective and intimate relationship with my mother and a cold, distant relationship with my father didn’t give the game away, the fact that my sexuality, which had long been exclusively gay, started wobbling back and forth between gay and straight when I was in my mid twenties certainly did. The first gave me strong circumstantial reasons for accepting the Freudian view, and the second cemented it; after all, your sexuality can’t change so much if you’re born that way, can it? And if one couldn’t trust the gay establishment about homosexuality, why should one trust them about AIDS?, I thought. If they could get the one issue wrong, they could get the other wrong as well. A similar process of politicised science may have taken place, leading to similarly distorted results. I realise that the weight of scientific opinion on the cause of AIDS is much stronger than that for homosexuality, but the difference is only quantitative, and the similarities between the two issues are simply too strong to ignore. In both cases, a theory was promoted that served, or was felt to serve, the political agenda of gays. The ‘truth’ about homosexuality and the ‘truth’ about AIDS had to be kept as simple as possible, to avoid confronting some embarrassing possibilities about what might really be making people gay and what might really be giving them AIDS. In neither case could any environmental influence be accepted, because that would look bad. No one wanted homosexuality to be caused by a disturbed family background, or AIDS to be caused by drug abuse and the effects of extreme sexual promiscuity on the body. It had to be all due to genetics, to your personal genetic background, and to the genes of HIV. In both cases, there was vicious intimidatation and ridicule and attempts at censorship directed against those who dared to question the accepted, politically correct view. Isn’t it time everyone faced up to the truth that the lies the gay establishment has maintained about these issues cannot be kept going forever? If you are gay, it isn’t because of your genes, you weren’t born that way, it’s because of a complicated set of family circumstances that you have not confronted. Similarly, you do not have AIDS because you contracted a deadly virus, perhaps through one unlucky encounter; you probably have AIDS because you are a promiscuous, drug-using slut, and your behaviour is wrecking your body. Not to be too judgemental about it. I’ve nothing against anyone being a slut per se, or against drug abuse per se, but let’s face reality.

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Went to the doc

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LOL!!!!!!!  That was cute!!!  THanks for helping lift my spirits and calm my nerves! — ~Heidi~

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well if I was freaked out before the appointment enough I am now!  Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  I need this right now (or ever)….I just feel my grip loosening right now…..Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I guess we all manage some how right? Yes, we usually do, Heidi. If anything, I think we handle real trauma better than normies, though sometimes we pay for it when they are over. BUT! the good news is that most suspicious moles end up being benign. At least once they are removed they won’t be able to cause trouble. Since you’re upside down, wonder why they didn’t fall off! Yes, my dear, calm down…I’m sure things are fine. Try to focus on the positive. Even if there is some problem, caught early, everything can be fixed.

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Well if I was freaked out before the appointment enough I am now!  Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  I need this right now (or ever)….I just feel my grip loosening right now…..Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I guess we all manage some how right? Yes, we usually do, Heidi. If anything, I think we handle real trauma better than normies, though sometimes we pay for it when they are over. BUT! the good news is that most suspicious moles end up being benign. At least once they are removed they won’t be able to cause trouble.

Since you’re upside down, wonder why they didn’t fall off! Yes, my dear, calm down…I’m sure things are fine. Try to focus on the positive. Even if there is some problem, caught early, everything can be fixed.

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Thank you, Ian.  That is very relieving to know about most moles not being skin cancer.  I had never heard that.  I usually try to research most med problems and medications but I stopped doing so much because soon I "had it all".  Every symptom, every side effect, and every failure rate. (damn anxiety)  So, thanks for the info.  And I am a classic case of not getting them checked.  Had them for a few years but was too nervous to go.  Then I realized….I can get rid of this one source of fear and anxiety if I JUST GO to the DOC.  lol…sometimes Im slow but with people like you and ASAP giving support I think this long month may be much easier.  Thank you (((((Ian))))) — ~Heidi~

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well if I was freaked out before the appointment enough I am now!  Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  I need this right now (or ever)….I just feel my grip loosening right now…..Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I guess we all manage some how right? Yes, we usually do, Heidi. If anything, I think we handle real trauma better than normies, though sometimes we pay for it when they are over. BUT! the good news is that most suspicious moles end up being benign. At least once they are removed they won’t be able to cause trouble. With the hole in the ozone layer and the aussie lifestyle, skin cancer is almost an epidemic down-under. However, if caught early (and most take a while to really get going), its easily treated. The problem is that people just won’t go and have anything suspicious checked out. Which is a great shame. I don’t know if its the case elsewhere, but in Oz we have mobile breast cancer screening units where women can have mammograms at no cost and these (and other measures) are having a positive effect on lowering the death rate for this type of cancer. I think they really need to do something similar for skin cancer. Ian

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Thank you Jackie.  That meant a lot to hear that.  You always seem to know the words to cheer a person up!  Thank you ((((((Jackie))))))) — ~Heidi~

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – :Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in :all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I :guess we all manage some how right? Dear Heidi, Nothing worse than waiting for test results. You are alot stronger than you give yourself credit for and will get through this rough spot better than you think. {{{{{Heidi}}}}} Jackie ~*~If I could wish for my life to be perfect, it would be tempting but I

would have to decline, – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – for life would no longer teach me anything~*~

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Well if I was freaked out before the appointment enough I am now!  Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  I need this right now (or ever)….I just feel my grip loosening right now…..Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I guess we all manage some how right?

Yes, we usually do, Heidi. If anything, I think we handle real trauma better than normies, though sometimes we pay for it when they are over. BUT! the good news is that most suspicious moles end up being benign. At least once they are removed they won’t be able to cause trouble. With the hole in the ozone layer and the aussie lifestyle, skin cancer is almost an epidemic down-under. However, if caught early (and most take a while to really get going), its easily treated. The problem is that people just won’t go and have anything suspicious checked out. Which is a great shame. I don’t know if its the case elsewhere, but in Oz we have mobile breast cancer screening units where women can have mammograms at no cost and these (and other measures) are having a positive effect on lowering the death rate for this type of cancer. I think they really need to do something similar for skin cancer. Ian

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I will let you all know how it turns out…although I just found out my appt to remove them is MAY 30!!!  Ugh…..it’ll be a long month but you are all so wonderful I know it will be ok.  Thank you ((((Diane)))) for your comforting words — ~Heidi~

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – {{{{{{{Heidi}}}}}}} Anything medical or dental scares me.  Scares most normies too.  I know the waiting is the worst.  Sending you calming vibes.  Please let us know how you make out. Di Well if I was freaked out before the appointment enough I am now!  Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  I need this right now (or ever)….I just feel my grip loosening right now…..Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I guess we all manage some how right? — ~Heidi~

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:Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in :all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I :guess we all manage some how right? Dear Heidi, Nothing worse than waiting for test results. You are alot stronger than you give yourself credit for and will get through this rough spot better than you think. {{{{{Heidi}}}}} Jackie ~*~If I could wish for my life to be perfect, it would be tempting but I would have to decline, for life would no longer teach me anything~*~

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Youre right Liz,  you have a very good point.  Only ONE MORE MONTH of stressing over something Ive put of for two years!!!!!!  lol…..it emazes me sometimes how smart and insightful all of you are!  Thanks ((((Liz)))) — ~Heidi~

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well if I was freaked out before the appointment enough I am now!  Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  I need this right now (or ever)….I just feel my grip loosening right now…..Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I guess we all manage some how right? — ~Heidi~ There is a very good side to this, Heidi.  You are going to have them removed, and then they won’t be there to freak you out ever again. Yes, you will shoulder the stress this is causing, and after it is all over, you will be very proud that you took the time to keep your body healthy.  When you start to freak out with your thoughts, instead, tell yourself that you are getting the situation handled and that you are one heck of a smart lady for doing so. Sending you a smile! Take care, Liz

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{{{{{{{Heidi}}}}}}} Anything medical or dental scares me.  Scares most normies too.  I know the waiting is the worst.  Sending you calming vibes.  Please let us know how you make out. Di

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Well if I was freaked out before the appointment enough I am now!  Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  I need this right now (or ever)….I just feel my grip loosening right now…..Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I guess we all manage some how right? — ~Heidi~

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Thank you so much Anne for telling your story, it helped me to remember that Im not the only one in the world going through this.  Sometimes that reminder is enough to make me think "I can handle it too" the actualy waiting, the thoughts, and the anxiety it produces.  Thank you again ((((Anne)))) for your support — ~Heidi~

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – … Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  … Heidi:  Sending you strength as you wait….  It’s nerve-wracking, I know. (Went thru this with a "bad" Pap smear series last year and a cervical biopsy. All’s well; whew. But the waiting made me crazy for a while, so I do know how you’re feeling.) Be glad they are doing such a thorough screening. Small comfort at the moment, I know, but in the long run you will be reassured that nothing’s been left unevaluated. …  But I guess we all manage some how right? Yes, that inner strength rises to the occasion. ((((Heidi)))) xxoo Anne

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Well if I was freaked out before the appointment enough I am now!  Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  I need this right now (or ever)….I just feel my grip loosening right now…..Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I guess we all manage some how right? — ~Heidi~

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… Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  …

Heidi:  Sending you strength as you wait….  It’s nerve-wracking, I know. (Went thru this with a "bad" Pap smear series last year and a cervical biopsy. All’s well; whew. But the waiting made me crazy for a while, so I do know how you’re feeling.) Be glad they are doing such a thorough screening. Small comfort at the moment, I know, but in the long run you will be reassured that nothing’s been left unevaluated. …  But I guess we all manage some how right?

Yes, that inner strength rises to the occasion. ((((Heidi)))) xxoo Anne

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Well if I was freaked out before the appointment enough I am now!  Been referred to another doc to remove FOUR moles and sent to pathology……the waiting kills me.  I need this right now (or ever)….I just feel my grip loosening right now…..Im not sure if Im going to be all I need to be in all aspects with this added stress and anxiety on my shoulders now.  But I guess we all manage some how right? — ~Heidi~

There is a very good side to this, Heidi.  You are going to have them removed, and then they won’t be there to freak you out ever again. Yes, you will shoulder the stress this is causing, and after it is all over, you will be very proud that you took the time to keep your body healthy.  When you start to freak out with your thoughts, instead, tell yourself that you are getting the situation handled and that you are one heck of a smart lady for doing so.   Sending you a smile! Take care, Liz – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –

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Patient's own risk estimates to drug side-effects – The Lancet

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anecdotal evidence can be the result of a cluster of people who experience the same thing…but there may be thousands of people they don’t know who didn’t experience them…just an odd statistical blip to find 5 (or whatever) together… theoretically. the research is done on a group much larger than 5… although, I am quite suspicious of this Taxol info…I suffered like a monkey on a rock  with the pain, the neuropathy…and the pain, in addition to be painful, made me feel very nervous, like I was going to jump out of my skin…

| (Despite the problems I had with it, if I knew it were the best medication | around that might help, I would still opt to take it–even though I feel that | there is something wrong with the information that has been disseminated re. | the degree of potential side effects which, I believe, should probably be | further researched and probably corrected). | | | IME, your post is right on, Kaye. | | I know my Mom’s chemo nurses were much more "up" on the side effects of | Taxol and their remedies . Much more so than her oncologist. He briefly told | her of the possibility of neuropathy and that is all. What else he said was | "If you thought A/C was easy you’ll breeze through the Taxol" He obviously | wasn’t around when she was pacing the house all night because of the pain or | having trouble doing her work on the computer since she couldn’t feel her | fingertips. | | I find it odd, as you say, that the anecdotal evidence is so often contrary | to the information/documentation given out about Taxol by the pros. | | Karen |

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 My oncologist told me that most people did not experience the severe pain that I did.  However, during my treatment one day I ran into 3 women I had gone to radiation with.  Many formed friendships and are still in contact with each other.  3 of the 4 women that I knew experienced similar pain–which we would all describe made us feel like ‘climbing the walls’.

Others have commented on anecdotal evidence, underreporting by test groups, etc., which I agree with.  In the "anecdotal" realm, I think that many people are more likely to enter into a conversation if they have a "me too" story (especially when the experience is particularly memorable, good or bad).  This may be even more likely among women; I think we’re typically socialized to think that it’s somewhat impolite to disagree, thus more likely to keep quiet if our experiences differ. So I’ll jump in with a "not me", lest those just starting chemo think *everyone* has big troubles with Taxol.  I was pretty sick on AC, but Taxol was much easier.  Two or three days per cycle of mild bone pain, mostly alleviated with OTC Tylenol, maybe one or two nights when it was nice to take something stronger.  Some peripheral neuropathy, which made me butterfingered, but didn’t prevent typing or anything like that (I probably would’ve had trouble with something requiring fine motor skills, like beading or embroidery).  And fatigue. If anything, what I was told (and what other who’d gone through it told me) led me to expect less trouble than I had from AC, and more trouble than I had from Taxol. I know & understand that others’ experiences can be totally the opposite. Ann

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<< Like you said Crosem-the side effects are made so much worse by the anxiety of not knowing they are normal. Perhaps to some degree, but I have had an occasionall reaction to other medications that was unexpected and did not experience related anxiety. However, I cannot remember ever being in worse pain than I experienced while on Taxol.  I think it must have been nerve pain–one example of just one of the pains that I felt under  my toenail was as severe as a bad toothache that I once had which affected the nerve.  Two days after getting Taxol these pains started and  would occur in several areas simultaneously and migrate to different areas.  This pain was on-going.  I did not feel sick in any other way except when I developed a fever, I felt more tired.  The degree of pain was not influenced in anyway by the fever which was also intermittent.  

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anecdotal evidence can be the result of a cluster of people who experience the same thing…but there may be thousands of people they don’t know who didn’t experience them…just an odd statistical blip to find 5 (or whatever) together… theoretically. the research is done on a group much larger than 5… although, I am quite suspicious of this Taxol info…I suffered like a monkey on a rock  with the pain, the neuropathy…and the pain, in addition to be painful, made me feel very nervous, like I was going to jump out of my skin…

I know:) Anecdotal evidence is no evidence at all. It is just that, anecdotes. BUT, I find it very odd that out of the dozens of Taxol experiences we have heard about here and I, and others, have heard from patients elsewhere, it seems like more often than not, Taxol is much harder on them than they were lead to believe. It is an awful coincidental blip for a wide range of patient variables (age, health, stage of cancer, other medications) to go so far against the image of Taxol put forth by oncologists. The Taxol webpage seems to be pretty straight forward about itself. It notes that most people have neuropathy and pain is not uncommon. But I also found this page which doesn’t even mention the pain, and this person is researching Taxol? http://www.ch.ic.ac.uk/local/projects/farmer/sidefec.htm I am not debating the use of Taxol at all. The Taxanes have shown themselves quite effective in fighting BC, it’s the lack of accurate info that is being presented by some docs that is worrisome. Like you said Crosem-the side effects are made so much worse by the anxiety of not knowing they are normal. Karen

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<< My Mom found the EXACT same problem. It seems the side effects of the Taxanes are very much overlooked by the medical community.   If the pharmaceutical company is not providing accurate information re. side effects re. this drug, it makes me wonder how valid their findings are re its effectiveness based on studies that they have funded? I know of one friend who could no longer work in her profession , due to peripheral neuropathy, after taking Taxol and was never able to return to that profession.  However, I do beleive that she had been on it for a long-term (more than 4 cycles).  She was a dental hygienist, and her fingers as well as feet became numb.   Although I believe some feeling returned, the numbness effected her lower extremities enough, where she felt she had to move from a two-story home to a one-story, after she tripped on the stairs (related to unsteadiness from the neuropathy). There may be something very wrong with the way this drug has been marketed in terms of lack of this information being given and/or based on the populations used in the studies, per so many more negative reports of ‘real’ experiences. I would say that there is an ascertainment bias re. those who are sharing their stories of such on the internet; however, learning of 4 out of 5 women on Taxol (out of a total of at most 12 whom I had met while having radiation who were being treated for breast cancer at our health care facility) who had similar problems on Taxol (when at the time I had met maybe a dozen total who were being treated for breast cancer during my radiation treatments) Taxol while undergoing radiation treatment) suggests there is a much higher percentage of women who experience severe pain than has been reported by the company.  Excuse the confusing sentence–while undergoing radiation, I met around 12 other women being treated for breast cancer.  I know that at least 5 of them had Taxol.  I do not think the others had Taxol, but I am not certain.  Out of the 4 that had Taxol, 4 (including myself) ex[eroenced severe pain, that was was so much more intense than any discomfort experienced while receiving AC.  Yet, I was told that most do not experience such to that degree.   That was not what I learned after talking with other women. I am also wondering how many patients speak directly with their oncologists re. such.  Initially, when I called in, I spoke with a nurse who spoke to another oncologist on-call about prescribing pain medication since it was on the weekend.  I didn't see my oncologist again until 3 weeks after each treatment. He generally is not around while chemotherapy, which is administered by trained R.N.'s,  is given to patients. My doctor's response to me may have been based on reports he'd read by the drug company who manufactures it as well as published research.  Perhaps, there has been no research to correct this seemingly flawed difference in what appears to be what many patients' actually experience with Taxol and what has been published? (Despite the problems I had with it, if I knew it were the best medication around that might help, I would still opt to take it--even though I feel that there is something wrong with the information that has been disseminated re. the degree of potential side effects which, I believe, should probably be further researched and probably corrected).

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 (Despite the problems I had with it, if I knew it were the best medication around that might help, I would still opt to take it--even though I feel that there is something wrong with the information that has been disseminated re. the degree of potential side effects which, I believe, should probably be further researched and probably corrected).

IME, your post is right on, Kaye. I know my Mom's chemo nurses were much more "up" on the side effects of Taxol and their remedies . Much more so than her oncologist. He briefly told her of the possibility of neuropathy and that is all. What else he said was "If you thought A/C was easy you'll breeze through the Taxol" He obviously wasn't around when she was pacing the house all night because of the pain or having trouble doing her work on the computer since she couldn't feel her fingertips. I find it odd, as you say, that the anecdotal evidence is so often contrary to the information/documentation given out about Taxol by the pros. Karen

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one possibility is that the RESEARCH subjects who were used to calculate the "real" risk of side effects underreported their complications. TO KAY301:  I thought the pain in my bones from Taxol was very much worse than the AC.  I wound up with 2-3 Duragesic patches at one time, which did not take away all the pain but most of it.

| << I think it demonstrates that the medical community's concept | of risk is completely out of whack with the general population and that | many people don't understand numbers. |   | | That could be.  However, after my experience with Taxol, I am not so sure. My | oncologist told me that most people did not experience the severe pain that I | did.  However, during my treatment one day I ran into 3 women I had gone to | radiation with.  Many formed friendships and are still in contact with each | other.  3 of the 4 women that I knew experienced similar pain--which we would | all describe made us feel like 'climbing the walls'.  None of us had | experienced that intensity of pain which we did for so long while on Taxol | (lasted 6 days the first time for me)--not even during childbirth (at least not | for me--but then again, I had 3, relatively 'easy' deliveries). | Prior to getting Taxol for the first time I was given a short, one-page summary | of some possible side effects.  Joint and muscle pain were listed, along with | peripheral neuropathy amongst others.  However, joint and muscle pain were also | listed in the summary I got about AC treatments, and in addition I was shown a | video to help prepare me. | I was not given Zofran prior to my first Taxol, but I wound up vomiting soon | after the treatment started.  I wasn't even told that would be a symptom. | However, prior to receiving AC I was given Zofran and then before I went home I | was given 3 different anti-nausea medications to take home.  I never needed | anything, although I took a few  more  doses of Zofran, as had been prescribed. | | In regard to the nausea problem, I am not sure the drug company was at fault | since nausea is listed as a frequent symptom.  In that situation I do think my | health care facility was somewhat 'negligent'  in providing accurate | information.  However, in regard to the degree of pain that many experience | with Taxol, I think that both the drug company and the oncology dept. at my | health care facility did not provide accurate information.

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<< TO KAY301:  I thought the pain in my bones from Taxol was very much worse than the AC.  I wound up with 2-3 Duragesic patches at one time, which did not take away all the pain but most of it. What I found odd was the incongruency between the way I was 'over-prepared' for the AC and the lack of information provided before the Taxol.  I assumed that the Taxol would be, if not easier, not any more difficult than AC.  Since I had such an easy time with AC it never occurred to me to seek any further info before I started, especially since none was provided and no forewarning was given.  I do not feel that the lack of info. in any way contributed to the difficulty I experienced, especially since I have a fairly high tolerance for pain.  Also, afterwards, I did seek out info on two other b.c. forums and was surprised to learn that many others reported similar experiences to mine. re. pain associated with Taxol.  Neither Tylenol nor Ibuprofin helped.  Vicodan, if taken early enough, sometimes took the edge off.  I was on the verge of even trying something stronger. Interestingly, my oncologist once told me that he does not 'listen' to the drug companies but bases treatment decisions on the research.  However, if most research these days is funded by the drug companies, what are the chances of some of it being biased?  One study I read in the recent past reported that 5% (or was it greater?) of published research was fraudulent.

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The current issue of The Lancet has a brief research letter[1, free access after registration] about how ordinary people estimate the risk of drug side-effects. I think it demonstrates that the medical community’s concept of risk is completely out of whack with the general population and that many people don’t understand numbers.

I agree with you.  I also have learned NOT to read the package inserts at first.  I start taking the drug, after confirming how to take it with the pharmacist, and ONLY if something starts acting weirdly do I read the list of possible side effects.  I find there’s less scope for hypochondria that way. — Aloha, Catharine Character is what you do when no one’s watching.

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<< TO KAY301:  I thought the pain in my bones from Taxol was very much worse than the AC.  I wound up with 2-3 Duragesic patches at one time, which did not take away all the pain but most of it. What I found odd was the incongruency between the way I was ‘over-prepared’ for the AC and the lack of information provided before the Taxol.  I assumed that the Taxol would be, if not easier, not any more difficult than AC.

My Mom found the EXACT same problem. It seems the side effects of the Taxanes are very much overlooked by the medical community. Everyone is so focused on the N&V control of the A/C that the debilitating pain that can be caused by the Taxol is brushed aside. Mom also breezed through the A/C and found the Taxol a miserable and very painful experience. K-

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My ISP seems to have lost this post in a crash, at least I can’t see it. Apologies to anyone who sees it twice. I think this is a realistic view of the numerate skills of the general populace, although one might have hoped for better from Reading, the centre of the UK’s high-technology industry.  I hope that a population of maths graduates would have done at least a little better.  (Such questions should be made part of their degree paper.) I think most people have difficulty understanding probabilities outside the normal range found in horse-racing, i.e. down to about 2%, and even then only is it is expressed in the traditional form. Beyond that it is necessary to resort to recognisable example.  For instance when beef on the bone was banned in England due to the BSE risk, a journalist pointed out that you had more chance of being knocked down on the road by Princess Anne than of getting BSE from a rib roast. This lack of understanding is much played upon by the tabloid media, e.g. in promoting fear of crime, and by lawyers e.g. in DNA evidence.  I think this is the real meaning behind the famous quote "There are lies, damned lies and statistics." Tim Jackson PS.  Lance, I have been contacted by a representative of an infinite number of monkeys, who would like advice on recycling several cubic parsecs of misspelled copies of Hamlet.  :-) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – The current issue of The Lancet has a brief research letter[1, free access after registration] about how ordinary people estimate the risk of drug side-effects. I think it demonstrates that the medical community’s concept of risk is completely out of whack with the general population and that many people don’t understand numbers. The Lancet says that the EU recommends classifying drug side-effect frequency into 5 ranges like ‘very rare’, ‘rare’ and so on up to ‘very common.’ The terms are defined as: Very common – 10% of patients Common – 1-10% Uncommon – 0.1-1% Rare – 0.01-0.1% Very Rare – <0.01% The researchers grabbed 200 undergrads (Reading Univ, UK) and told them just about the terms – not the numbers – and asked them to estimate their own risk of side effects. The students thought their risk was: Very common – 65% Common – 45% Uncommon – 18% Rare – 8% Very rare – 4% The researchers had similar results after bothering people at libraries, railroad stations and who were shopping. What totally flabbergasted the researchers (and me) is when they told people about risk using numbers, people still grossly overestimated their own risk: People were told a side effect occurs in 2% of patients, People estimated their chances of getting this side effect as 9.5% People were told a side effect occurs in 0.02% of patients, People estimated their chances of getting this side effect as 7% This is the research equivalent of asking "What is George Bush’s first name?" and getting "Darlene" for an answer. The standard deviations were huge. It was ‘common’ that the SD value exceeded the mean. I’m guessing that some people got the numbers right, but then some people scored risk like 10 to 1000 times higher than reality. Being a numbers-type person, I don’t get it. Lance ***** [1] Research letters: Provision of information about drug side-effects to patients; D C Berry, P Knapp, D K Raynor; pp 853 www.thelancet.com

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The current issue of The Lancet has a brief research letter[1, free access after registration] about how ordinary people estimate the risk of drug side-effects. I think it demonstrates that the medical community’s concept of risk is completely out of whack with the general population and that many people don’t understand numbers. The Lancet says that the EU recommends classifying drug side-effect frequency into 5 ranges like ‘very rare’, ‘rare’ and so on up to ‘very common.’ The terms are defined as: Very common – 10% of patients Common – 1-10% Uncommon – 0.1-1% Rare – 0.01-0.1% Very Rare – <0.01% The researchers grabbed 200 undergrads (Reading Univ, UK) and told them just about the terms – not the numbers – and asked them to estimate their own risk of side effects. The students thought their risk was: Very common – 65% Common – 45% Uncommon – 18% Rare – 8% Very rare – 4% The researchers had similar results after bothering people at libraries, railroad stations and who were shopping. What totally flabbergasted the researchers (and me) is when they told people about risk using numbers, people still grossly overestimated their own risk: People were told a side effect occurs in 2% of patients, People estimated their chances of getting this side effect as 9.5% People were told a side effect occurs in 0.02% of patients, People estimated their chances of getting this side effect as 7% This is the research equivalent of asking "What is George Bush’s first name?" and getting "Darlene" for an answer. The standard deviations were huge. It was ‘common’ that the SD value exceeded the mean. I’m guessing that some people got the numbers right, but then some people scored risk like 10 to 1000 times higher than reality. Being a numbers-type person, I don’t get it. Lance ***** [1] Research letters: Provision of information about drug side-effects to patients; D C Berry, P Knapp, D K Raynor; pp 853 www.thelancet.com

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<< I think it demonstrates that the medical community’s concept of risk is completely out of whack with the general population and that many people don’t understand numbers.   That could be.  However, after my experience with Taxol, I am not so sure.  My oncologist told me that most people did not experience the severe pain that I did.  However, during my treatment one day I ran into 3 women I had gone to radiation with.  Many formed friendships and are still in contact with each other.  3 of the 4 women that I knew experienced similar pain–which we would all describe made us feel like ‘climbing the walls’.  None of us had experienced that intensity of pain which we did for so long while on Taxol (lasted 6 days the first time for me)–not even during childbirth (at least not for me–but then again, I had 3, relatively ‘easy’ deliveries). Prior to getting Taxol for the first time I was given a short, one-page summary of some possible side effects.  Joint and muscle pain were listed, along with peripheral neuropathy amongst others.  However, joint and muscle pain were also listed in the summary I got about AC treatments, and in addition I was shown a video to help prepare me. I was not given Zofran prior to my first Taxol, but I wound up vomiting soon after the treatment started.  I wasn’t even told that would be a symptom. However, prior to receiving AC I was given Zofran and then before I went home I was given 3 different anti-nausea medications to take home.  I never needed anything, although I took a few  more  doses of Zofran, as had been prescribed. In regard to the nausea problem, I am not sure the drug company was at fault since nausea is listed as a frequent symptom.  In that situation I do think my health care facility was somewhat ‘negligent’  in providing accurate information.  However, in regard to the degree of pain that many experience with Taxol, I think that both the drug company and the oncology dept. at my health care facility did not provide accurate information.

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Need to vent.. but comments would be wonderful!

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I am a 42yr old female (30 year smoker). I had a car accident in April, broke 7 ribs and Xrays should what looked like 2 large contusions on my R lung. I never got well, in fact the pain was getting unbareable to the point of not being able to get out of bed. I finally went back to my PCP with new Xrays of my lungs and he agreed there may be a problem. Had several tests, finally a needle biopsy diag’ed that I had non-small cell lung cancer, adenocarcinoma. I had two tumors, the surgeon said they were seperate incidents. I also had 2 lymp nodes involved. He explained the old staging would be 4, but a new staging has come out staging it 2 I had lung lobectomy and also had the 2 nodes removed. My prognosis was 80% recurrence.. love statistics <sigh My oncologist visited me the day after surgery (Oct 25,2000) and said 95% he would do chemo and 100% sure radiation. After getting over the surgery at the follow up visit he suddenly changed his mind to only radiation… on the lymp nodes along my bronc. My pain somewhat letup for 2 weeks then suddenly my pain level when sky high. I was nearly through with my radiation treatment last week, Jan. 22, 2001 when the radiation oncologist comes in and says "Im sorry but the pain isn’t post operative but another tumor!" WELL talk about falling into another deep depression. I just wonder if Chemo would of stopped yet another tumor to pop up. I truely feel my treatment was not agressive enough. I have read and heard that both chemo and radiation should be used… but my oncologist said the effects of chemo would not be helpful.  That does not sound right to me.. or am I in denial?   Anyways… thanks for listening :) Lucy

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In article – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am a 42yr old female (30 year smoker). I had a car accident in April, broke 7 ribs and Xrays should what looked like 2 large contusions on my R lung. I never got well, in fact the pain was getting unbareable to the point of not being able to get out of bed. I finally went back to my PCP with new Xrays of my lungs and he agreed there may be a problem. Had several tests, finally a needle biopsy diag’ed that I had non-small cell lung cancer, adenocarcinoma. I had two tumors, the surgeon said they were seperate incidents. I also had 2 lymp nodes involved. He explained the old staging would be 4, but a new staging has come out staging it 2 I had lung lobectomy and also had the 2 nodes removed. My prognosis was 80% recurrence.. love statistics <sigh My oncologist visited me the day after surgery (Oct 25,2000) and said 95% he would do chemo and 100% sure radiation. After getting over the surgery at the follow up visit he suddenly changed his mind to only radiation… on the lymp nodes along my bronc. My pain somewhat letup for 2 weeks then suddenly my pain level when sky high. I was nearly through with my radiation treatment last week, Jan. 22, 2001 when the radiation oncologist comes in and says "Im sorry but the pain isn’t post operative but another tumor!" WELL talk about falling into another deep depression. I just wonder if Chemo would of stopped yet another tumor to pop up. I truely feel my treatment was not agressive enough. I have read and heard that both chemo and radiation should be used… but my oncologist said the effects of chemo would not be helpful.  That does not sound right to me.. or am I in denial?   Anyways… thanks for listening :) Lucy

Lucy: I am sorry to hear about your tumor. I would recommend if you don’t feel right about your doctor’s advice that you seek a second opinion. I would also recommend if you are having difficulty coping emotionally a good counselor. If you have an HMO, call for authorization to see a social worker or psychologist. A lot of times people need extra support. Sending good wishes.

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Lucy, I have a cousin with NSCLC and it mets all over. Radiation was given for her back and brain. She is also doing chemo. Surgery was not an option. She was diagnosed in June 2000. She went into partial remission (giving false hope) in Dec 2000. She has extreme pain in her back and had CTS done it had come back. (Reality). With surgery there is hope. With lung cancer you buy time. My mother has small cell. I am not trying to bring you down. I am just saying I don’t think it matters with lung cancers. I am so very sorry. If you need to vent it out write me. I do understand your frustrations. I live with them everyday. I have recurrent breast cancer so believe me I do understand your situation as do others in the NG.   It use to be that chemo was not an option for NSCLC. They have found a couple of drugs to help buy time. I know you are going to get the crazies posting on miracles. Someone from the NG called this snatch and grab remedies. Look into clinical trials. There are a few going on. My prayers are with you. Debbie

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The situation is complicated, I have not seen any records and I can only give some preliminary thoughts.  I believe chemo is not routinely given for post-surgical stage 2 patients though it is for stage 4.  Thus the staging is important.  It is difficult to say that early chemo would have eradicated the second tumor also.  Good luck. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am a 42yr old female (30 year smoker). I had a car accident in April, broke 7 ribs and Xrays should what looked like 2 large contusions on my R lung. I never got well, in fact the pain was getting unbareable to the point of not being able to get out of bed. I finally went back to my PCP with new Xrays of my lungs and he agreed there may be a problem. Had several tests, finally a needle biopsy diag’ed that I had non-small cell lung cancer, adenocarcinoma. I had two tumors, the surgeon said they were seperate incidents. I also had 2 lymp nodes involved. He explained the old staging would be 4, but a new staging has come out staging it 2 I had lung lobectomy and also had the 2 nodes removed. My prognosis was 80% recurrence.. love statistics <sigh My oncologist visited me the day after surgery (Oct 25,2000) and said 95% he would do chemo and 100% sure radiation. After getting over the surgery at the follow up visit he suddenly changed his mind to only radiation… on the lymp nodes along my bronc. My pain somewhat letup for 2 weeks then suddenly my pain level when sky high. I was nearly through with my radiation treatment last week, Jan. 22, 2001 when the radiation oncologist comes in and says "Im sorry but the pain isn’t post operative but another tumor!" WELL talk about falling into another deep depression. I just wonder if Chemo would of stopped yet another tumor to pop up. I truely feel my treatment was not agressive enough. I have read and heard that both chemo and radiation should be used… but my oncologist said the effects of chemo would not be helpful.  That does not sound right to me.. or am I in denial?   Anyways… thanks for listening :) Lucy

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Lucy, your type of cancer does not really respond to chemotherapy;certainly not in a curative sense. Surgery and radiation are the only means of cure (in the early stages) and sometimes chemo can help with symptom control later on. What you need right now is a pain specialist (oncologists and GPs are not usually very good at symptom control. If there is a palliative care team in your area get in touch with them as soon as possible so that any symptoms you do get can be dealt with at an early stage. Anti inflammatory drugs like naproxen and voltaren can be very useful for lung cancer pain but you may well need a combination of drugs to deal with it effectively. If you choose to push your oncologist for aggressive chemotherapy then get all the information you can off him and go in with a plan. Set a target e.g. if the cancer is not in remission or well on it’s way after three treatments give it up, especially if the side effects are making your life miserable. Some people cope well with chemo others not so well. You don’t know till you try it. Whatever you decide Good Luck. MIKE

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am a 42yr old female (30 year smoker). I had a car accident in April, broke 7 ribs and Xrays should what looked like 2 large contusions on my R lung. I never got well, in fact the pain was getting unbareable to the point of not being able to get out of bed. I finally went back to my PCP with new Xrays of my lungs and he agreed there may be a problem. Had several tests, finally a needle biopsy diag’ed that I had non-small cell lung cancer, adenocarcinoma. I had two tumors, the surgeon said they were seperate incidents. I also had 2 lymp nodes involved. He explained the old staging would be 4, but a new staging has come out staging it 2 I had lung lobectomy and also had the 2 nodes removed. My prognosis was 80% recurrence.. love statistics <sigh My oncologist visited me the day after surgery (Oct 25,2000) and said 95% he would do chemo and 100% sure radiation. After getting over the surgery at the follow up visit he suddenly changed his mind to only radiation… on the lymp nodes along my bronc. My pain somewhat letup for 2 weeks then suddenly my pain level when sky high. I was nearly through with my radiation treatment last week, Jan. 22, 2001 when the radiation oncologist comes in and says "Im sorry but the pain isn’t post operative but another tumor!" WELL talk about falling into another deep depression. I just wonder if Chemo would of stopped yet another tumor to pop up. I truely feel my treatment was not agressive enough. I have read and heard that both chemo and radiation should be used… but my oncologist said the effects of chemo would not be helpful.  That does not sound right to me.. or am I in denial? Anyways… thanks for listening :) Lucy

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0T-Yoplait & Breast Cancer Awareness

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Hi Guys,    Just saw a commercial on TV.  Yoplait is putting out a yogurt container with a pink cover with the Breast Cancer Awareness Ribbon on it.  For every pink cover you save & send (don’t know where) Yoplait will donat 10 cents to Breast Cancer Research.  This info is not coming second hand — I am the one who saw this commercial — it’s called "Covers For Cancer".  I saw the commercial on PAX TV right after Diagnosis Murder — not sure when else it will be on as I don’t watch a lot of TV.    Anyway, just wanted to pass on this info so that you yogurt eaters could think about buying & saving the cartons with the pink covers.  CiaoMeow ^;;^< . PAX, Tia Mary   ^;;^<     Angels can’t show their wings on earth but nothing was ever said about their WHISKERS!!   Nothing is complete without a few cat hairs! No husband was ever shot doing dishes! Visit my photo album  http://www.photopoint.com

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This may be well known, but just in case.   There is thehungersite.com and mysmallpart.com  - these are two sites one can go to daily and in exchange for seeing the ads, make donations.   I particularly like thehungersite and have been assured it really does what it says.  Mysmallpart I do not know so much about. Sheena – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hi Guys,    Just saw a commercial on TV.  Yoplait is putting out a yogurt container with a pink cover with the Breast Cancer Awareness Ribbon on it.  For every pink cover you save & send (don’t know where) Yoplait will donat 10 cents to Breast Cancer Research.  This info is not coming second hand — I am the one who saw this commercial — it’s called "Covers For Cancer".  I saw the commercial on PAX TV right after Diagnosis Murder — not sure when else it will be on as I don’t watch a lot of TV.    Anyway, just wanted to pass on this info so that you yogurt eaters could think about buying & saving the cartons with the pink covers.  CiaoMeow ^;;^< . PAX, Tia Mary   ^;;^< Angels can’t show their wings on earth but nothing was ever said about their WHISKERS!! Nothing is complete without a few cat hairs! No husband was ever shot doing dishes! Visit my photo album  http://www.photopoint.com

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I saw the yogurt container – I ate the yogurt!  So it’s not an urban legend.  But I wonder at the financial sense of using 33 cents postage to get a 10 cent donation to charity, wouldn’t it be better to send the charity the money directly yourself? Alison – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Hi Guys,   Just saw a commercial on TV.  Yoplait is putting out a yogurt container with a pink cover with the Breast Cancer Awareness Ribbon on it.  For every pink cover you save & send (don’t know where) Yoplait will donat 10 cents to Breast Cancer Research.  This info is not coming second hand — I am the one who saw this commercial — it’s called "Covers For Cancer".  I saw the commercial on PAX TV right after Diagnosis Murder — not sure when else it will be on as I don’t watch a lot of TV.   Anyway, just wanted to pass on this info so that you yogurt eaters could think about buying & saving the cartons with the pink covers.  CiaoMeow ^;;^< . PAX, Tia Mary   ^;;^<     Angels can’t show their wings on earth but nothing was ever said about their WHISKERS!!   Nothing is complete without a few cat hairs! No husband was ever shot doing dishes! Visit my photo album  http://www.photopoint.com

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This may be well known, but just in case.   There is thehungersite.com and mysmallpart.com  - these are two sites one can go to daily and in exchange for seeing the ads, make donations.   I particularly like thehungersite and have been assured it really does what it says.  Mysmallpart I do not know so much about.

Speaking of yogurt.  Dannon has those combo packs of cheesecake flavoured yogurt with strawberries or chocolate.  Does anyone know of anyone making just a plain cheesecake flavored yogurt, or of a way to make it? Deb (take out all before milner to reply)

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I wonder at the financial sense of using 33 cents postage to get a 10 cent donation to charity

I haven’t read the instructions myself, but it seems that you should be able to collect up a whole bunch of lids and mail them in one envelope. — Finished 8/25/00 – wedding sampler WIP: #1 – getting my health back California Sampler, Holiday Snowglobe, America the Beautiful (Nimble Needle), antique green doll (Vervaco), Xmas cactus Don’t risk your on-line privileges!  I report all Spam.

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I’d like to know why Yoplait’s contribution of "up to $500,000" should depend on consumers buying their product.  Why don’t they just donate the money out of the goodness of their heart? Brenda – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I wonder at the financial sense of using 33 cents postage to get a 10 cent donation to charity I haven’t read the instructions myself, but it seems that you should be able to collect up a whole bunch of lids and mail them in one envelope. — Finished 8/25/00 – wedding sampler WIP: #1 – getting my health back California Sampler, Holiday Snowglobe, America the Beautiful (Nimble Needle), antique green doll (Vervaco), Xmas cactus Don’t risk your on-line privileges!  I report all Spam.

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I’d like to know why Yoplait’s contribution of "up to $500,000" should depend on consumers buying their product.  Why don’t they just donate the money out of the goodness of their heart?

The main reason, from an altruistic point of view, is because it increase awareness about breast cancer and the organization they are donating the funds to.  This is a strategy that is taught to health educators.  Unfortunately more awareness will be raised by Yoplait doing this than probably by the organization in a year.  People pay more attention to a commercial product than they do to messages from nonprofit organizations.  And if the company simply donated money, no one would know about it.  So the organization’s bottom line would be increased by the amount that Yoplait donated but they would lose in the money they did not get from Yoplait’s consumers who were unaware they existed.

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Brenda Best wrote I’d like to know why Yoplait’s contribution of "up to $500,000" should depend on consumers buying their product.  Why don’t they just donate the money out of the goodness of their heart?

Dunno, but you could ask Avon, Revlon and several other companies the same question. emerald

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Brenda Best wrote I’d like to know why Yoplait’s contribution of "up to $500,000" should depend on consumers buying their product.  Why don’t they just donate the money out of the goodness of their heart? Dunno, but you could ask Avon, Revlon and several other companies the same question.

To get people to try their products. Nina Finished in September: 430+ page statistics textbook (proofreading job) (HAPPY DANCE!!!) WIPs: Random Thoughts, Drawn Thread; Provence Sampler, MLI; The Real Noah’s Ark, Bestitched; A Cat with Heart (glasses/cell phone case [purse project]) UFOs: too many to list… <sigh — Professional proofreading doesn’t cost; it pays!

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  Dunno, but you could ask Avon, Revlon and several other companies the same question. To get people to try their products.

I was just being a little facetious (or is ironic a better word?). It seems to me that half-a-million dollars is just a drop in the ocean of many companies’ profits. There are individuals who have donated as much, and more, money without any of the fuss. JMHO, emerald

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  Dunno, but you could ask Avon, Revlon and several other companies the same question. To get people to try their products. I was just being a little facetious (or is ironic a better word?). It seems to me that half-a-million dollars is just a drop in the ocean of many companies’ profits. There are individuals who have donated as much, and more, money without any of the fuss.

Absolutely true, but the big companies figure they have a win-win situation: they can advertise their participation in a Good Cause, which also gets the Cause’s name a little more recognition; they sell more product, and hopefully gain long-term customers in the process; the Cause gets a well-publicized donation (and possibly some more unpublicized ones from people who just noticed the Cause, or were reminded of it); and by eating more yogurt, some women get more calcium — sorry, had to throw that in there!  Everyone wins. Nina — Professional proofreading doesn’t cost; it pays!

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Sorry to all.  I guess my skin is getting a little thin or my cynicism is growing.  My REAL problem is big companies commercializing a donation to a cause.  Why should they profit from it?  Does breast cancer really need more awareness in the public’s eye?  If Yoplait doesn’t get enough of those pink lids, is their donation going to be less than the $500,000? Brenda – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –   Dunno, but you could ask Avon, Revlon and several other companies the same question. To get people to try their products. I was just being a little facetious (or is ironic a better word?). It seems to me that half-a-million dollars is just a drop in the ocean of many companies’ profits. There are individuals who have donated as much, and more, money without any of the fuss. Absolutely true, but the big companies figure they have a win-win situation: they can advertise their participation in a Good Cause, which also gets the Cause’s name a little more recognition; they sell more product, and hopefully gain long-term customers in the process; the Cause gets a well-publicized donation (and possibly some more unpublicized ones from people who just noticed the Cause, or were reminded of it); and by eating more yogurt, some women get more calcium — sorry, had to throw that in there!  Everyone wins. Nina — Professional proofreading doesn’t cost; it pays!

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The reality of the situation is that they need to get the publicity.  These companies are set up to make a profit, and making anonymous donations do nothing to help the company.  If they were charities, they’d be paying a heck of a lot less in taxes.  :)  The company is responsible to its shareholders and if it’s going to be giving away money it needs to be getting something back in return. This might not sound terribly altruistic or high-minded or "pure," but it’s business.  And I’m sure the charities and other causes are just as happy to get the money anyway and don’t particularly care that the company donating it is getting something too. Angie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Sorry to all.  I guess my skin is getting a little thin or my cynicism is growing.  My REAL problem is big companies commercializing a donation to a cause.  Why should they profit from it?  Does breast cancer really need more awareness in the public’s eye?  If Yoplait doesn’t get enough of those pink lids, is their donation going to be less than the $500,000? Brenda   Dunno, but you could ask Avon, Revlon and several other companies the same question. To get people to try their products. I was just being a little facetious (or is ironic a better word?). It seems to me that half-a-million dollars is just a drop in the ocean of many companies’ profits. There are individuals who have donated as much, and more, money without any of the fuss. Absolutely true, but the big companies figure they have a win-win situation: they can advertise their participation in a Good Cause, which also gets the Cause’s name a little more recognition; they sell more product, and hopefully gain long-term customers in the process; the Cause gets a well-publicized donation (and possibly some more unpublicized ones from people who just noticed the Cause, or were reminded of it); and by eating more yogurt, some women get more calcium — sorry, had to throw that in there!  Everyone wins. Nina — Professional proofreading doesn’t cost; it pays!

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The reality of the situation is that they need to get the publicity.  These companies are set up to make a profit, and making anonymous donations do nothing to help the company.  If they were charities, they’d be paying a heck of a lot less in taxes.  :)  The company is responsible to its shareholders and if it’s going to be giving away money it needs to be getting something back in return. This might not sound terribly altruistic or high-minded or "pure," but it’s business.  And I’m sure the charities and other causes are just as happy to get the money anyway and don’t particularly care that the company donating it is getting something too. Angie

Great post, Angie! I’ve been too busy the last few days to jump into this thread…   It just floors me that people can think "big business" should do certain things. And of course, many times it’s people that don’t own, or probably even have shares, in big business that think this way. It’s a big circle.. the companies need to promote themselves to get business to make profits in order to give to charities. And, I may be waaaaaaay off base here, but I seem to remember that not all charitable contributions by companies are tax deductible  …  maybe these need to be tied to a promotion in order to write off.  Just a thought. Sally

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Personally I’m glad it’s being done. A coworker of mine just found out last week she has breast cancer. She is faithful about going to the doctor and getting her yearly mammogram. Unfortunately she has dense breasts and the mammogram didn’t detect anything. She started having swelling and a discharge and it was detected on a more intense workup. They think that she has had it for 3 years, it occupies 3/4 of her breast and they found spots on her liver. This week she goes for a bone and brain scan. She’s going to have 3 chemo treatments and then a mastectomy. Maybe you all can send some good thoughts her way. Her name is Suellen. Thanks. Kim in SW Fl

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Kim — oww!  :(  Definitely good thoughts and wishes for Suellen.  I hope everything works out well for her. Angie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Personally I’m glad it’s being done. A coworker of mine just found out last week she has breast cancer. She is faithful about going to the doctor and getting her yearly mammogram. Unfortunately she has dense breasts and the mammogram didn’t detect anything. She started having swelling and a discharge and it was detected on a more intense workup. They think that she has had it for 3 years, it occupies 3/4 of her breast and they found spots on her liver. This week she goes for a bone and brain scan. She’s going to have 3 chemo treatments and then a mastectomy. Maybe you all can send some good thoughts her way. Her name is Suellen. Thanks. Kim in SW Fl

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Supportive boyfriend needs help

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% My girlfriend had a hard lump.Many cystic lumps but this is the first hard lump % and she is very scared. Nelson I want to say I understand what you are saying here.  I have not been told there is no place for me in the dealing of my Friends BC, but I have been told I need to deal with it in MY way, and MY way is to not talk to you about it.  I must say she is not talking to anyone about it.  I respect this and told her I will ask for her help when the silence gets to difficult for me. The big thing I try to keep in mind about this and you need to remember is, being supportive has nothing to do with ME or in your case YOU.  If you want to be there for your girlfriend then be there for HER.  That means nothing about YOU but how SHE needs you and WHEN she needs you.  When you look at her realize your girlfriend is the one with BC. Your girlfriend wants your support but may be very afarid of what is going to happen.  It makes it very difficult to be supportive of YOU and ANYONE ELSE for that matter.  To support you girlfriend stand by her and be her Friend.  Try and understand as you (and I plus others) are doing here. Know where your limits are and respect them.  Talk with her Friends and see if they know where you can help and how to support.  Show your girlfriend she can trust you, you will not abandon her or look elsewhere. This all seems very one sided but it helps to understand her issues. It is easy to make this about yourself, after all everyone is impacted, but please resist, after a while I believe your girlfriend will open up a little.  And lasty don’t forget to pray for her as I will.  It is what will help the most for both of you. Nelson please visit this group often and get support here.  I have and found much support.  I will help to support the one you love when it is difficult. God’s Blessings for both you and your girlfriend. — To send E-mail delete the blackhole.

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cp1.news.cs.com, Nelson, Congratulations on being the boyfriend everyone

wants!  It sounds to me like you’re on the right track…being supportive

without getting in her face.  Some of us need more hands-on help from our

significant others, some less. I guess that I fall on the same side as your

girlfriend.  I’d been through the BC fight with my mother and really, really did

not want to hash it out on a daily basis with my husband.  I did not want to

talk about it or  dwell on it so he got the silent treatment with respect to the disease. There were times, however, when the dread and

grief of the whole situation overwhelmed me and I’d find myself enduring an

hour or so of heartwrenching, unabatable tears.  He was there to hold and

comfort, just what I needed. I wish you both the best with whatever the outcome. Take care and feel free to post any other

questions you might have.  There’s a real helpful group of survivors and their loved

ones who frequent this newsgroup.  Somebody’s bound to be able to help. …lisa

lisa, this is the supportive boyfriend’s ex- girlfiend. This guy is NOT the boyfriend everybody wants. He paints a very pretty picture though. Just over the course of a couple of weeks he said many, many nasty things. In most situations with him, it becomes all about him and nobody else. Please don’t see this as bitter, I just want you to know how angry it made me to think that he, once again wanted sympathy. But, unfortuneatly, that’s the way he is. I, on the other hand am coping well. The friend he spoke of DID NOT have breast cancer. That’s another thing that angers me, is to know that he didn’t even listen well enough the many, many times we talked about her cancer to even know where and what kind she has. SHE is however a wonderful Blessing that God has given me for support. He had a problem with that fact as well, said I should be able to talk to him the same as I can her! Not a very supportive comment in my oppinion. He didn’t even bother to ask me if I had gotten the results back from my Dr and when I brought this to his attention and said he didn’t want to make me think about the problem, that is when he tried to justify his actions by joining this forum. I wish that he had been who he pretended to be, I really could have been happy with a person like that in my life. Thank you for your well wishes and I am glad to know that I have another place to go for real support. Before you buy.

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% My girlfriend had a hard lump.Many cystic

lumps but this is the first hard lump % and she is very scared. Nelson I want to say I understand what you are

saying here.  I have not been told there is no place for me in the dealing of

my Friends BC, but I have been told I need to deal with it in MY way, and

MY way is to not talk to you about it.  I must say she is not talking to

anyone about it.  I respect this and told her I will ask for her help when the

silence gets to difficult for me. The big thing I try to keep in mind about this

and you need to remember is, being supportive has nothing to do with ME or

in your case YOU.  If you want to be there for your girlfriend then be there

for HER.  That means nothing about YOU but how SHE needs you and WHEN she

needs you.  When you look at her realize your girlfriend is the one with BC. Your girlfriend wants your support but may be

very afarid of what is going to happen.  It makes it very difficult to be

supportive of YOU and ANYONE ELSE for that matter.  To support you

girlfriend stand by her and be her Friend.  Try and understand as you (and I plus

others) are doing here. Know where your limits are and respect them.

Talk with her Friends and see if they know where you can help and how to support.  Show your girlfriend she can trust you, you will not

abandon her or look elsewhere. This all seems very one sided but it helps to

understand her issues. It is easy to make this about yourself, after

all everyone is impacted, but please resist, after a while I believe your

girlfriend will open up a little.  And lasty don’t forget to pray

for her as I will.  It is what will help the most for both of you. Nelson please visit this group often and get

support here.  I have and found much support.  I will help to support the

one you love when it is difficult. God’s Blessings for both you and your girlfriend. — To send E-mail delete the blackhole.

anon5dc I am the supportive boyfriends ex-girlfriend. I was glad to see that somebody else could see that he made this about him. I thought very briefly that I was being to hard on him. I wish that I could say that was so. Unfortunately, he is that way. Everything becomes all about him and he feels this great need for sympathy. He wanted me to cry over this!! I think that he felt the need to see me cry and feel sorry for myself so that he could be a hero. The night before I had to go for my mammogram, I told him I just wanted to be alone, he got nasty over that later. Said I should have been able to talk to him about all of this. The friend that he talks about, didn’t even have breast cancer. I am very bothered by the fact that he didn’t even listen well enough to know what and where her cancer was. He could not stand the fact that she is my support center. She is a blessing from God to me. She can relate and does not expect me to say what I don’t want to say. I mean this guy went as far as to talk about me dying. Said the reason that I am upset with him is to help me cope with the fact that I may lose my life. This does not constitute a supportive person, or does it? I certainly don’t think so. I wish he had been who he professed to be, I need a man like that in my life, but I do not need one like him. Your friend has been blessed with you, I hope she sees that. I wish both of you God’s blessings for a positive future. Before you buy.

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My girlfriend had a hard lump.Many cystic lumps but this is the first hard lump and she is very scared.Still waiting for results of ‘gram.I only want to support her and all she tells me is that I’m a man and I have no idea what she is going through.she has a best friend who she helped through her breast cancer long before I appeared on the scene.All she wants to do is talk to her and worry.should I be concerned or should I just pray and wait until the results come back.They are due any day now.She has had benign lumps and biopsies before…but for some reason she is VERY worried about this particular lump. No man has ever wanted to be supportive for her in her past marriages and so she is not used to me being supportive.I feel like she is tuning me out and getting ready for the bad news.Can anyone offer some advice? Thank you for your time.Nelson Calligan Every Man dies,not every man really lives

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Nelson, Congratulations on being the boyfriend everyone wants!  It sounds to me like you’re on the right track…being supportive without getting in her face.  Some of us need more hands-on help from our significant others, some less.   I guess that I fall on the same side as your girlfriend.  I’d been through the BC fight with my mother and really, really did not want to hash it out on a daily basis with my husband.  I did not want to talk about it or  dwell on it so he got the silent treatment with respect to the disease. There were times, however, when the dread and grief of the whole situation overwhelmed me and I’d find myself enduring an hour or so of heartwrenching, unabatable tears.  He was there to hold and comfort, just what I needed. I wish you both the best with whatever the outcome. Take care and feel free to post any other questions you might have.  There’s a real helpful group of survivors and their loved ones who frequent this newsgroup.  Somebody’s bound to be able to help. …lisa

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Sentinel Node Biopsy/SLND INFO… PLEASE!

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I am urgently trying to locate surgeons/medical facilities who perform the Sentinel node Biopsy/SLND treatment for breast cancer, either in the U.S., or Singapore/Asia. Thank you!

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I am urgently trying to locate surgeons/medical facilities who perform the Sentinel node Biopsy/S

I had this procedure done by Dr. Robert Quinlan, 67 Belmont St., Worcester, MA last month.  

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Dr. Alan Stolier is a breast specialist.  He is a wonderful surgeon and he performs sentinel node biopsy.  He is in New Orleans, Louisiana at Memorial Medical Center, Baptist campus.

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Linda McCartney, RIP

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Synchronicity, some folks are posting with quotes from Paul McCartney tonight – and his wife just died. Thought I’d share the news with y’all. I think it’s quite sad……joni

Agreed.  See my earlier post. Dave

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Synchronicity, some folks are posting with quotes from Paul McCartney tonight – and his wife just died. Thought I’d share the news with y’all. I think it’s quite sad……joni

 I agree…I was fairly shocked. I didnt know she suffered from breast cancer. Birgitte

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Synchronicity, some folks are posting with quotes from Paul McCartney tonight – and his wife just died. Thought I’d share the news with y’all. I think it’s quite sad……joni

So do I.

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Synchronicity, some folks are posting with quotes from Paul McCartney tonight – and his wife just died. Thought I’d share the news with y’all. I think it’s quite sad……joni

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Chat with Oncologist tonight

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Methodist Healthcare System of San Antonio will be conducting a chat session with hematologist-oncologist Dr. Steven Kalter on treatments for breast cancer on Wednesday, October 30 from 7:00 to 8:30 PM.  The chat can be found at the Methodist Healthcare System web site at: http://www.MHSHealth.com.  Dr. Kalter will be addressing issues related to breast cancer, specifically new treatment methods.

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I had a lymphadenectomy done node free and need lymphadema therapy.  I live in  Barnegat, NJ where can I go and can lymphadema be cured.  My surgeon said no and my oncologist said yes.  The St. Barnabas Hospital in Livingston NJ has a Lympadema Therapy Center which is 100 miles away from me.  What can I do?

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Hi, My name is Sherry I live in Waretown…Had a mastectomy and node removal in April…so far so good no lymphedema yet…. I did go to the cancer society seminar..there was a dr. from princeton who does wonderful work with lymphedema…it is Lymphedema Services 600 Alexander Road Princeton 1-800-882-9498 website is:  http://www.lymphedemaservices.com Havent tried it..not sure if it works… Good luck to you…… Sherry

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